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#145923 05/15/2021 11:49 AM
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This group is great! I'm new to all of this but everyone is so friendly and supportive. I am trying to learn the etiquette and jargon. Friend of Ellis, e.t.c. Being called a bull, after a Google search, tickled me. I can't wait for my first hedo and lifestyle experience! Love to everyone for helping me accept myself­čą░

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KyleMM1 #145925 05/15/2021 03:07 PM
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Heck, I have to idea what a friend of Ellis is or the word 'Bull'! Are those Hedo terms? Help!

I know what a Vinnie, Wally, and Cindy is....and Delroy's, and RastaPasta and MoBay and nude side/prude side...


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chris santilli #145926 05/15/2021 06:16 PM
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Re: New language
chris santilli #145927 05/15/2021 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted by chris santilli
Heck, I have to idea what a friend of Ellis is or the word 'Bull'! Are those Hedo terms? Help!

I know what a Vinnie, Wally, and Cindy is....and Delroy's, and RastaPasta and MoBay and nude side/prude side...


This puts me in mind of when some folks were talking about color coded rings and crap to figure out who was into what........... Most people just talk to each other to figure that stuff out.

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KyleMM1 #145928 05/15/2021 07:36 PM
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Ahhhh....education is good! Those terms are likely used at Hedo but are not exclusively Hedo terms....


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LyleM #145932 05/16/2021 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted by LyleM
This puts me in mind of when some folks were talking about color coded rings and crap to figure out who was into what........... Most people just talk to each other to figure that stuff out.
On one of my trips, I recall a husband and wife and during the entire week I was there, he was constantly seen wearing a wristband that had the word "cuckold" . I don't think he could've made it more obvious what he was into.

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KyleMM1 #145933 05/16/2021 10:45 AM
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You learn something new every day. Been going for 25 years and never heard those terms. I've always gotten a kick out of the talks about the color codes and what they mean and what an open door to a room means. You could get in trouble if your interpretation and the other party's don't jibe.

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KyleMM1 #145935 05/17/2021 01:48 PM
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I would say that sexually dominant single males 'Bulls' welcomed by husbands who get a sexual thrill from being humiliated by such a man ravishing their wives are a rare breed at Hedo. Sexually dominant women who are equal partners in a long standing marriage are more the norm in my experience. Overconfident young single men ( Vinnies) usually can be found alone with their male buddies deeply disappointed or very thankful to a local sex worker for relief.


"Your clothes conceal much of your beauty, yet they hide not the unbeautiful...meet the sun and the wind with more of your skin...For the breath of life is the sunlight and the hand of life is the wind ....". Kahlil Gibran
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KyleMM1 #145936 05/17/2021 01:56 PM
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One of my favourite Hedo activities over the last 15 years of regular Hedo trips has been interviewing single males of all ages. Without fail the wonderful men who agree to talk to me have been sensitive, kindhearted, open minded, empathic individuals who do not want to see ANYONE humiliated. The less socially skilled disappear when I tell them my usual intention is just to TALK about sex.

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"Your clothes conceal much of your beauty, yet they hide not the unbeautiful...meet the sun and the wind with more of your skin...For the breath of life is the sunlight and the hand of life is the wind ....". Kahlil Gibran
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KyleMM1 #145937 05/17/2021 03:17 PM
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I wonder if the language varies by region. I have no desire to humiliate anyone. The definition I found was definitely not that one. The one I found was on a swinger site with a bunch of other terms listed like unicorn and soft swap, etc.

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KyleMM1 #145938 05/17/2021 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by KyleMM1
I have no desire to humiliate anyone.
Except that this *might* be the way they get off. No judgements here.

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KyleMM1 #145939 05/17/2021 07:29 PM
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Ah....though Hedo may be becoming a swing resort more so than in the past...the long-time guests don't want to see the resort that way. (IMO)


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KyleMM1 #145940 05/17/2021 07:53 PM
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I agree.

Respect.


The more you look, the more you see.
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KyleMM1 #145941 05/17/2021 08:02 PM
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While I embrace change.......... it's just possible folks with more time and mileage on them see things differently because of experience others may not have. Not stating that as fact; just a possibility.

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KyleMM1 #145942 05/18/2021 05:49 AM
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Seems to me that this conversation shows what's truly great about Hedo -- especially for someone who's new to the experience. Hedo's fungibility is part of what makes it so amazing. It's a buffet -- take what you like and leave the rest for someone else.

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Lucie73 #145943 05/18/2021 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Lucie73
One of my favourite Hedo activities over the last 15 years of regular Hedo trips has been interviewing single males of all ages. Without fail the wonderful men who agree to talk to me have been sensitive, kindhearted, open minded, empathic individuals who do not want to see ANYONE humiliated. The less socially skilled disappear when I tell them my usual intention is just to TALK about sex.


I'm always happy to talk with you..........

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For those of you who think the whole 'cuckold, bull, sharing, hotwife' - "sexually dominant single males 'Bulls' welcomed by husbands who get a sexual thrill from being humiliated by such a man ravishing their wives are a rare breed at Hedo" I present to you the Facebook "Hedo Couples for Singles" group with it's 2,700 members.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1743037582519593

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Risu #145945 05/18/2021 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Risu
For those of you who think the whole 'cuckold, bull, sharing, hotwife' - "sexually dominant single males 'Bulls' welcomed by husbands who get a sexual thrill from being humiliated by such a man ravishing their wives are a rare breed at Hedo" I present to you the Facebook "Hedo Couples for Singles" group with it's 2,700 members.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1743037582519593
I personally find this absolutely shocking! How the hell do they only have 2,700 members?

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KyleMM1 #145946 05/18/2021 02:42 PM
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I would like to respectfully elaborate on my personal opinion Risu........ I agree with you wholeheartedly that
Hedo couples looking for singles is not uncommon at all.
I just would like virgin-to- Hedo single males to be aware that it is more common for such a couple to use a young single male as a play thing to enhance their own intimate relationship than a " Bull " for the " Hot wife". Its more common for a couple to be searching for a single female than a single male though. I could be completely wrong about this but this has just been my own personal observation.


"Your clothes conceal much of your beauty, yet they hide not the unbeautiful...meet the sun and the wind with more of your skin...For the breath of life is the sunlight and the hand of life is the wind ....". Kahlil Gibran
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KyleMM1 #145949 05/18/2021 04:50 PM
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I can't speak for other people but I'm going to Hedo for the first time to experience new things, get way out of my comfort zone, and live a little. Whatever happens, I'm sure I'm going to meet some great people and have an experience of a lifetime. This will actually be my first vacation that is a vacation just for me. I need time away from my norm!

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Could be. I just don't have a desire to make a person feel humiliated. Who knows, in that type of situation, where that's the pleasure, I might be game. No idea. I have no experience with anything but active single young guy and monogamous relationships later.

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