Mark & Rose - June, 2002

Our flight down (for our fourth trip) was uneventful and perfect! It was the first time I've

seen Air Jamaica depart on time. We arrived at Mo Bay almost a half hour ahead of schedule

at 9:40am, so we opted for the bus, as it was dubious our rooms would be ready.

The bus ride only took a hour and a half, which is far better than the two and a half hour

ride we first took in'97. We had a few hours of sunshine that day, then got the customary

afternoon sprinkles and overcast the rest of the day. Hung around the hot tub and relaxed

and made it a somewhat early night.

Saturday, I went diving, while Rose was perfecting her tan. We dove O'Neil's reef but with

all the recent rains, visibility was cut in half from what it normally is. I hope I got some

good pics! We took Maria McKenzie(a former bartender at Hedo and her significant other)

out to dinnner for her birthday. It was great seeing her again and she now has her own

bar in Lucea.

Sunday was mostly rainy and windy..lotsa folks in the main dining room playing cards. We

did have an hour or two of sunshine though. The hot tub was popular and the company

outstanding as usual.

Monday..as we got married at Hedo 6/10/97, we had planned to re-new our vows for our

5th anniversary. First, the location where it happened, now has that ridiculous excuse

of a "miniture golf course" constructed! Second, the day started out with rain and never

stopped! We gladly would have traded in the free day we got for a day of sunshine! Rose

decided it just wasn't meant to be this year and cancelled the ceremony.

Tuesday..The rain stopped and had some early sunshine but VERY windy! I wanted to dive

but questioned the safety of it, as I could see big white caps from the beach. I questioned

the divemaster about potential problems getting back onto the boat after the dive, and

got the customary "No Problem Mon"! So I went..Rose kissed me goodbye and we took off.

It was pretty cool and we got to play w/a small sting ray and a medium size sea turtle!

(They're quite graceful underwater)

MY NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE: (NOT MADE UP OR EXAGGERATED)

After 30 min into the dive, I noticed I only had 550lbs. of air left. I signled to my buddy

and the divemaster I was low on air and needed to start an ascent. My "buddy" still had

plenty of air left so the divemaster motioned for me to ascend alone from 70'. (THIS IS

AGAINST EVERYTHING THAT PADI AND YMCA TEACHES) I started my ascent alone..stayed at 15'

for 4 min as by now I was well into the RED ZONE, then continued to the surface.

I was met with heavy seas, high winds, and dark skies. I inflated my BC and saw the dive

boat in the far distance from atop a 6' swell. I thought to myself: "I only have to hold

on for a couple of minutes in this mess and he'll be here". After 5 min., I timed the

interval between swells, and blew my whistle hard twice.....nothing, the winds were so high

and I was being blown out to sea..he couldn't hear me. I told myself to remain calm..

panic kills..remember my training..(I was also in the Navy for 8 years). 5 min turned into

15, and I discovered my BC was leaking air through the mouthpiece! The sea state at that

time prevented manual inflation without swallowing massive amounts of sea water. I was

getting chilled and starting to shiver. I decided to conserve what little air I had left

in my tank and go to snorkel.

Then I heard engines starting (as I was downwind), and thought: "Oh, thank-you Lord", but,

as I came up upon another swell, I saw the dive boat disappearing...until it was out of

sight.....I inflated my BC again, and raised my eyes to the sky, and began to make my

peace with God...and prayed...The shoreline was rapidly disappearing, and so was I!

In the meantime, the rest of the group had surfaced, and the dive boat couldn't find them

either! So the divemaster has a "horn" of some sorts that attaches to his BC that he set

off to get the boat's attention. That's when I saw the boat disappear. (this part is third

party) When he got to them, the divemaster asked: "Where's Mark?"! "Isn't he with you?"!

The divemaster told everyone to stay in the water, and told the boat captain: "he surfaced

10 min ahead of us! Go get him!"

Back to me: If any of you have seen "Perfect Storm"...I was relating to the guy in that

last scene. I was hoping Rose and the kids would be ok, and resigning myself to my fate.

My adrenilin was used up..my body was exhausted and was starting to shut down! All I could

think was: "God I don't want to die like this!!!!!"

Then I heard engines again! On top of another swell, I saw a boat in the far distance

heading my way! I prayed: "Please God, give me the strength to last, just a bit longer!"

My heart started racing, my BC was only half full, I was struggling to keep my head on the

surface..and I felt myself start to go into hyper-ventilation! I knew if that happened, I'd

become unconcious and drown before he got to me!

The next thing I knew was the boat was about 30 feet abeam...The Pilot asked if I could swim

to the ladder. I waved my hand "no" (I had NOTHING left!) I went under and raised my

hand...and somehow, he grabbed my wrist, ripped my mask off, removed my BC and tank, and

pulled me aboard!

When I got finished coughing out the salt water..I gave thanks..I certainly was given a

second chance! My Gaurdian Angel was there!

My experience SEVERELY traumatized me!! I was left in the ocean with heavy seas and high

winds for 25-30 min.I'm a very strong swimmer and an Advanced PADI

Diver, but nothing prepared me for this! I spoke to Donna Grant later, on the condition

no one would get in trouble. I told her that if she doesn't insist on standard PADI safety

rules, I would write to PADI myself about what happened! She assured me policy would

change, as she's a diver herself and unaware this was happening.

Wednesday..Spent a lot of quiet time....relaxing in the hot tub...a few strong drinks too!

Went to the Japanese Restaurant with a group of close friends. Food and atmosphere was

great! (Just don't speak Japanese to the cooks or waiters..Ya Mon! ;))

Went to Veronica's after dinner, but Dave decided to take an unscheduled holiday!!!

After soooo many choruses of "99 Bottles of Beer", my buddy Mike got up and sat in for

Dave..My jaw dropped wide open!!!! He could be a concert pianist! And he did it ALL by

ear too!!! He turned a disaster into a VERY pleasant evening! (I took lotsa pics too!)

I told Hedo he should get a free night!

Thurs...First day of good sunshine, but very windy..what to do???? I tried one of those

"blue" pills for the first time! Took it about 10:30am and went out to the pool. About

11:00am it starts kicking in, so I suggest we go to our room. Well hell's bells! The

ONE day the maid decides to do our room early!!!!!!!! So I jumped in the "cooling" pool to

teach the little bugger a lesson, then soon cum mon, again, and again..etc..);-))))

Friday..Last full day!! Bummer!!! Early am Rose sees me staring at the ocean all the

time..knowing the lust and fear that I now have for it...hugs me, and says: "You know, if

you don't go back out today, you never will again." (She knows me so well) I KNEW she was

right, so did my friends. The sea was calm that day, so I made myself go. My diving

friends whom we've known for some time went with me which I'll never forget, thank-you both!

And I buddied up with the divemaster himself. I had a GREAT dive this day!!!!!! And yes,

I'll be going again, but ONLY safely!!!!!!!!!

Saturday..Leaving at 2:00pm...Sooooo Sad! All the good-byes...(:-( Several of our friends

gave our bus a GOOD Hedo send-off at the gate!!!!!!!!

We miss you all!!!! Until next time!!!!!!!!

Mark & Rose